Shuffle into the school building. See jeans. Jaunt to the nearest coffee shop. See jeans. Prance through the doors of Benaroya Hall. See jeans. Bored yet?

It seems to me that Seattleites foster an innate fear of the tuxedo and leather dress shoe. Perhaps we all find comfort in the cling of our jeans and t-shirts - the wonderful simplicity of fresh-from-the-floor clothing. How is it, we wonder, that people from the east coast are able to brave the darkest closet corners and deepest drawers so as to adorn themselves in intimidating finery when simply dining with friends or listening to music? They must be mad! We will stick firm with our rumpled, who-cares-what-the-occasion, jack-of-all-evenings attire and strut proudly down the streets, caring just enough to keep our pants over our rear ends thank you very much.

...I'm sorry to say that I must decline.

I find it rude and disrespectful when a person feels that dressing up for a special occasion is not only unnecessary but to be carefully avoided. I just don't understand why anyone would feel that what is usually worn to school and around the house is appropriate for expensive dinners, parties, and other such special occasions. It is tasteless and often arrogant.

A friend and I got into quite an argument over dress and style. His defense was something along the lines of self-expression and breaking with tradition, wearing only what he wanted how he wanted. He apparently felt that dressing well for appropriate events was traditional, old-fashioned, and ultimately something to be rebelled against. It was a repression of his style and personality.

What style? What personality? Was he referring to the ability to wear the same outfit every day, or his right of being an absolute slob as fit his fancy? As for it being a stuffy, old convention that should be done away with just as readily as racism and homophobia, I must mention that some traditions are such for a reason. Would Hollywood stars and musical icons remain idols if they chose to let themselves go and have merely their talents earn them their fan clubs? My money says not.

Yes, clothing and dress is and should be a form of self-expression. I push that ideal to the extremes, challenging myself to never wear the same thing twice (all of the second hand clothing stores in the junction come in really handy) and wearing whatever happens to fit my mood. One day I might look like I stepped out of the 1950's, while the next I could be in a Japanese rock band. I have fun with my clothes and I don't spend a lot of money to achieve the look either. Imagination and creativity - not money - should be what's important.

I don't expect nearly that level of obsession from everyone, but I do wish that people would step up to the occasion, temporarily mute all of their whining, and show a little class. Even if it isn't your thing, be mindful of the people around you. Dressing well hints to the people around you that you think well of them; it is a way to show respect, appreciation, and politeness.

Just think about it. Next time the opportunity arises, try breaking with tradition and go the extra step with a nice pressed suit or even just an upgrade from the usual for the gentlemen and an elegant dress or similar upgrade for the ladies. (P.S. Gals give brownie points to guys who know how to dress even if they tell you it doesn't matter to them.)

Kyra-Lin Hom is a 16-year-old West Seattle resident who writes every other week in this newspaper and can be contacted at kl_hom@yahoo.com