My generation, identified as "The Greatest Generation," has lived through the best of times and worst of times; gone to bed hungry when food was scarce, wore hand-me-down clothes because money to buy new clothes was nonexistent, struggled to find jobs, helped neighbors, and only dreamed of a college education and music lessons.

We fought a world war to protect freedom and did it with camaraderie of faith, hope and charity in line with a then popular song titled, "Praise the Lord and Pass the Ammunition."

Respecting others was not by choice of, "Yes I will or No I won't," depending upon our mood, it was a required behavior learned early on.

Killing was not an action learned easily for this gentle generation and one wonders how they could fight, kill enemies in war, and maintain integrity of human kindness and love.

That folks, is a cherished mannerism of life.

Maybe it's because, Captain Earl Cole, my twin brother, will celebrate his 80th birthday Oct. 10th that my thoughts drift to when he was just 14 years old and serving as a deckhand on a military ship in the South Pacific Ocean during World War II.

Yes, he fibbed about his age to enlist, and today he is among the few still living World War II veterans. Asked if he would do it again at age 14 given the chance, he said, "You betcha!"

Remembering WWII my heart aches for our young, strong, sons and daughters, who fight and die in the dust and heat of a country today, that not long ago was only an unfamiliar name in a geography book.

Unlike WWII, today's kids are at risk for what frequently seems like an unjustified cause.

The Greatest Generation survived the Great Depression, and today's generation struggles through a "recession." It's a challenging time; still folks will likely emerge better prepared to live life.

As the famous, skilled orator, Dale Carnegie said, "Happiness doesn't depend upon who your are, or what you have, it depends upon what you think."

While I am learning what growing this much older feels like, I know this; in the good times and bad times we human beings are building all that we will eventually become by our everyday choices.

Elders learned what war and living on a financial shoestring means. Maybe that's why the identity of Greatest Generation is appropriate.

As Anne Bradstreet wrote, "If we had no winter the spring would not be so pleasant: if we did not taste adversity prosperity would not be so welcome."

So, today this column is dedicated to my twin brother on his 80th birthday, and each of you readers, cherished friends and my precious children, Cindy Beasley, Paul Den and granddaughter, Maraeana.

Special thanks to Publisher Jerry Robinson for this local newspaper and the opportunity it provides to share these thoughts with you.

Being a part of this Greatest Generation has been an unforgettable ride and I'm still feeling frisky and loving life. OOMPH!

My writing is to inform, spark a smile or memory, and create a community way of thinking.

And what's more community than a Farmer's Market!

So grab your hat, pocket book, and healthy appetite for fun at the annual Chili Cook-off Oct. 31 at Des Moines Saturday Farmer's Market. Tasting is offered (while Chili lasts) 12-noon to 2 p.m. for a $3 cash donation to the local food bank.

Six chili chefs are signed up and only 4 more spaces are available.

City Council candidates running for election in November will be the judges.

So stop by for a taste of chili and a touch of would-be city leaders. Visit DMFM.ORG website for an application and details.

Other fun things to do:

Des Moines Activity Center's annual Spaghetti Dinner Oct. 10, Saturday, 5-7 p.m. For tickets, call 206 878-1642.

A Halloween Carnival Oct. 31st for children from 3-5 p.m. at Des Moines Field House, South 220th Street and 11th Avenue South.

Des Moines Legacy Foundation's Nov. 1st, annual fundraising Buffet Brunch at Anthony's Homeport in support of local events and the Senior Center. Tickets at 206 870-6527

Today's Thought: "I'm learning about people the hard way - by being one." Ashleigh Brilliant.