How to handle your feelings
By Lisa Mills, CHt.
SPECIAL TO THE TIMES/NEWS
ALL FEELINGS ARE GOOD!
It's What You Do With Them That Is Good or Bad
Life not going exactly as planned? Feeling frustrated or depressed? Smoking, but you want to quit?
Drinking, but you want to quit or drink less? Eating more than you should? Using drugs and it's wrecking your life? Any of the above?
All of these different problems have something in common: they all result in not responding to feelings in a way that takes care of the problem causing the feeling. Smoking, drinking, overeating, and excess snacking are only ways of temporarily coping with the feeling, by distracting yourself from the cause.
Since the cause has not been taken care of, it comes back again. This can lead to frustration and even depression.
Here are a few lists of items that can serve as a guide to help you to respond to your feelings in a more satisfying way than any compulsive behavior ever could:
First, an outline of the brief and simple process: